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My Wife Is Mad I Found Our Child’s Donor Siblings 

 

My wife and I, both women, have one child, who is now 5. We used a sperm donor from a federally licensed bank, to ensure our legal parental rights. I conceived and carried the baby, and both our names are on the birth certificate. Here’s the thing: A couple of months ago, I brought up with my wife the prospect of finding our kid’s donor siblings. She told me she wasn’t crazy about the idea but that I should go ahead and do what I want (obviously, this was said without enthusiasm). I brought it up to her several times after that, and her response was the same fatalistic, “Do what you want, obviously my wishes don’t matter here.” I took my spouse at her word, and started looking. In a secure, vetted fashion (through the sperm bank itself), I was able to find a group of other families who used the same donor. And there are a bunch of kids—over a dozen!

I am overjoyed. I’m excited about the prospect of meeting these families, of our children having close relationships with their half-siblings as they grow up. Seeing pictures, hearing family stories, and learning about medical histories are all great outcomes of this. And as a lesbian, I am excited to connect with a lot of other families, many of them LGBTQ, and have a sense of community with them. My wife is threatened by all of this. She says it feels like I am saying, “Here’s our kid’s real family.” I feel that her stance is emotionally immature and centers herself, not our child’s needs. My wife was really upset over my findings. She has asked me to not tell our child (yet?), and told me she felt hurt because deciding to contact donor siblings was something she wanted us to do together. Which is clearly not true!

My Wife Is Mad

Former Same-Sex Couple Sues State of Nebraska for Full Parenting Rights of Each Other's Children

'She was my soulmate and I vow swift justice and vengeance'

Tags: Advice, Crime, Death, DNA, Family, Laws, Lesbian, LGBTQ, Mental Health, Parental Burden, Police, Relationships, Respect, Support, Termination, Violence

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07-Jan-2022


American Parents Are Way Too Focused on Their Kids’ Self-Esteem 

 

American parents today are also quick to protect their kids from disappointment and failure. We give participation trophies when kids don’t win first place; we fly into the school to deliver kids’ forgotten homework. But these well-meaning interventions backfire because a child with healthy self-esteem is a child who has learned, through experience, that he can overcome obstacles and disappointment. He’s had the opportunity to fail and has discovered that failing doesn’t preclude him from being loved.

American Parents Are Way Too Focused on Their Kids’ Self-Esteem

14-year-old guns down three other teens in Texas store shooting

Queen's Guardsman flattens child who stepped into his path

Man begs for a positive COVID test to avoid visiting relatives

Tags: Accident, Advice, Americans, Children, Choices, Discipline, Family, Guns, Mental Health, Minors, Murder, Parental Burden, Parental Crime, Parenting, Psychology, Study, Treatment, Unruly Child, Video

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31-Dec-2021


13 Red Flags In A Relationship You Shouldn't Ignore 

 

8. Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a type of manipulation that's used to maintain control over another person and involves actively denying that person's reality. For the person on the receiving end, being gaslit can feel extremely disorienting and make them question their own emotions and intuition. Page notes this is a big red flag. If you're upset about something, and this person tells you "you're being dramatic" or "that never happened," not only are they not taking accountability, but they're trying to control you and the narrative of your relationship.

13 Red Flags

Woman, 24, kicks stunned boyfriend out of their apartment when hearing him swear at her beloved cat

Florida woman is charged with animal cruelty after throwing ex-boyfriend’s caged cat Stanley into a river

8 DATING RED FLAGS YOU NEED TO LOOK OUT FOR

Couple strapped to pole and beaten for hours over cheating allegations

Tags: Advice, Animals, Cheating, Culture, Enforcement, Hostility, List, Pets, Punishment, Relationships, Sex, Warning, World

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30-Dec-2021



 

Sometimes Viagra helped Allan’s erectile dysfunction. But, having to perform in a limited timeframe killed the mood & passion.

Mouth-Watering Chocolate Dessert

Man convicted of attempted murder, set free, then raped teen

Mexican mafia 'don't ask questions, they just kill'

Tags: Advice, Awareness, Cheating, Competition, Culture, Doctors, Gay, Hate, Ignorance, LGBTQ, Sex, Sex Work, Sexual Abuse, Sexual Harassment, Video, Waste, Who Cares!

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28-Dec-2021


My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas. 

 

I am 19 years old, and a few months ago I came out to my parents and siblings. Everyone has been very accepting and loving. The problem is this: My younger sister told my uncle and aunt that I am a lesbian. (It was not done maliciously.) They’re top-of-the-line homophobes. They told my grandmother, who is now banning me from Christmas festivities that we celebrate every year.

I told my parents to just go without me and, while reluctant, they would like to go just to smooth things over. As we get closer to Christmas, I am getting depressed at the thought of being alone for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. I could go to my friend’s house, but that seems pathetic. Please help!

My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas.

Santa Claus shot & killed:

Tags: Advice, Ban, Celebration, Family, Holidays, Homophobia, Lesbian, LGBTQ, Murder, Parental Burden, Parental Pride, Sad

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24-Dec-2021


Size DOES matter! 

 

Reducing the depth of penetration by an inch led to a statistically meaningful drop in the amount of pleasure experienced.

'The longer the erect penis, the less likely the rings had an impact on sexual pleasure,' they write.

Size DOES matter!

My Husband Is Suddenly Very “Well Endowed”

Teen gets USB cable stuck in penis...

Ladies do prefer men with hair...

Julian Morris Comes Out

'everyone knows it's wrong'

Tags: Advice, Anatomy, Coming Out, Discovery, Fraud, Gay, Gender, Hair, Marriage, Men, Preference, Relationships, Satisfaction, Sex, Sports, Study, Weird, Women In Charge, Youth

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14-Dec-2021


Quit Lying to Yourself 

 

No one wants to be seen as a liar. Liars are considered untrustworthy at best and immoral at worst. For example, your co-worker might choose to think that her last promotion was entirely a consequence of her excellent work; others might notice that she is also the boss’s niece.

The French existentialist philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre saw all self-deception, no matter how mild, as a form of what he called “bad faith”: an unwillingness to discover our essence as conscious beings and take true responsibility for ourselves.

Quit Lying to Yourself

The main perpetrators of violence against female MPs are male MPs

Woman reveals she FAKED her own wedding in a desperate attempt to get her ex to text her

80-year-old NYC man who was found dead with 'I touch little girls' written on his chest

Nicco Montaño shares disturbing details of alleged assault

Robert Griffin III will detail being sexually harassed

Tags: Advice, Female Toxicity, Gender, Hate, Identity, Politics, Psychology, Relationships, Safety, Sex, Sports, Violence, World

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02-Dec-2021


My Brother Set Me Up on a Date With an Underage Girl 

 

I am getting divorced from my wife. Last week, my younger brother (he’s 24, I’m 37) called me and said he’d met this woman at his job who was perfect for me. Then I turned up at the restaurant and she was clearly not in her thirties, and after I sat down and briefly spoke to her, she was clearly not an adult. I have no idea what to do next.

My Brother Set Me Up on a Date With an Underage Girl

'They tried to make me marry my 12-year-old cousin'

A McDonald’s Franchise Hired a Registered Sex Offender

Principal who allowed boy to remain in class after being accused of sexual assault

Girl, 11, catches gonorrhoea from bathing in hot springs

'Queer, nonbinary trans' professor claims it's OK for adults to be sexually attracted to minors

Two Arkansas men admit raping a six-year-old girl after hospital found she had STIs

16-year-old girl said she was raped hundreds of times by 400 people

Vir Das accused of ‘vilifying nation’

Man pleaded guilty to raping four teens but only got PROBATION because he's white

Tags: Advice, Children, Choices, Comedy, Disease, Education, Employment, Environment, LGBTQ, Parental Burden, Preference, Protection, Protest, Psychology, Rape, Relationships, Religion, Sex, Tradition, Video, Violence, Weird, World

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19-Nov-2021


Parents Are Not Okay 

 

School is only just starting and already kids are being quarantined in mind-boggling numbers: 20,000 across the state of Mississippi, 10,000 in a single district in Tampa, Florida. They’re getting sick too, with hospitalizations of kids under 17 across the country up at least 22 percent in the past month, by the CDC’s count, and each new week sets pediatric hospitalization records for the entire pandemic. The rapid increase of COVID-19 cases among kids has shattered last year’s oft-repeated falsehood that kids don’t get COVID-19, and if they do, it’s not that bad. It was a convenient lie that was easy to believe in part because we kept most of our kids home. With remote learning not an option now, this year we’ll find out how dangerous this virus is for children in the worst way possible.

It’s enough to bring a parent to tears, except that every parent I know ran out a long time ago—I know I did. Ran out of tears, ran out of energy, ran out of patience. Through these grinding 18 months, we’ve managed our kids’ lives as best we could while abandoning our own. It was unsustainable then, it’s unsustainable now, and no matter what fresh hell this school year brings, it’ll still be unsustainable.

Parents Are Not Okay

Gen Z is made of zombies

I've Never Wanted Kids—People Told Me My Life Is Pointless'

No charges will be filed against South Carolina father whose 20-month-old twin boys died

Here’s what makes ‘authoritative parents’ different from the rest

Mom enrages parents with her ‘ridiculous’ babysitting request

Day care owner gets 6 years for hiding 26 kids in basement

A mother said her 14-year-old daughter was kidnapped and the mom was arrested

Daughter of Chris Daughtry arrested in road rage alongside the boyfriend who killed her

...school board president kept creepy dossier on parents

Tags: Abuse, Accident, Activism, Advice, Anxiety, Business, Celebrity, Children, Choices, Death, Education, Employment, Etiquette, Interference, Mental Health, Parental Burden, Parental Crime, Parental Worry, Performance, Portrait, Privacy, Release, Sacrifice, Safety, Success, Tired, Treatment, Violence

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15-Nov-2021


How to Tell Your Partner You Want to Be Sexually Degraded 

 

“The repression industrial complex is strong,” Lil Government added. “Many of us grow up being told that discussing sex openly is inappropriate, all porn is bad, dressing a certain way invites harassment, etc. Views like this shut off healthy communication about sexuality, in society and in our own bedrooms, allowing puritanical shame to flourish. With your partners, the fear may be rejection or being seen as weird or fucked up. These fears are valid, and we all must weigh the risks of derision or judgment to find a deeper sense of ourselves and our community.”

...You Want to Be Sexually Degraded

Am I Addicted?

I had sex with 18 men and my husband handed out condoms

Woman says she breastfeeds her boyfriend

Lyft recorded more than 4,000 sexual assaults including 360 rapes

61-Year-Old Groom And His 18-Year-Old Bride Defend Their Marriage

My husband said sex was only for making children

Paul Scholes appears to bite toenails in daughter's bizarre Insta video

Man 'had six-month sex affair with dolphin'

Man allegedly exposes self almost everyday for 6 months

Tags: Advice, Animals, Auto, Business, Children, Disease, Effect, Fantasy, Food, Health, Marriage, Masturbation, Mat, Parental Burden, Preference, Rape, Relationships, Safety, Service, Sex, Sports, Statistics, Training, Unruly Child, Video, World, Youth

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12-Nov-2021


'Stalker written all over him!'  

 

'My mum has a new partner. They've been dating for a couple of months, and she's seemed very happy, and I was genuinely pleased for her, as I know she longs for companionship.

'However, I finally met him last week (staying with Mum for a couple of weeks as we hadn't seen her for almost a year), and I am really concerned. He's clearly love-bombing her, in my opinion.

'Stalker written all over him!'

Tags: $, Abuse, Advice, Aging, Greed, Interference, Mental Health, Misrepresentation, Threat

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10-Oct-2021


Do you consider your home a great investment? Think again 

 

Your home may be many things. A place to raise your family. An opportunity to put down roots.

But one thing it is not is a great investment, according to Jonathan Clements, editor of HumbleDollar.com and author of “How to Think About Money.”

That’s because the price appreciation of a house is “pretty modest” — about 1% a year faster than inflation, historically speaking, he said.

Freddie Mac is forecasting home prices will grow 3.6% in 2019 and 2.6% in 2020. According to the latest figures from the Labor Department, the inflation rate as tracked by the Consumer Price Index is 2% for the 12 months ending in April.

“You put it all together and most people are not keeping up with inflation after costs, and they may even be underwater, ” said Clements, who prefers the higher long-term rate of return of the stock market.

CNBC

TikToker says she can’t buy a house after opening Home Depot credit card

Tags: $, Advice, Credit, Home, Interference, Investment, Options, Real Estate, Responsibility

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02-Oct-2021


My Girlfriend Got Plastic Surgery at My Request. It’s Ruined Everything for Me. 

 

My girlfriend had a nose job done three years ago at my request. (I did not pressure her.) Tragically, the procedure went wrong and her face was disfigured. We stayed together throughout this and I covered some of her legal and medical bills and did my best to support her emotionally. For the past year, however, I feel like I’m with her out of guilt more than anything. I find myself losing patience with her and making excuses to cancel our dates. I do not have the heart to break up with her because I feel obliged to look after her. I’m sure she’s noticed this but hasn’t said anything to me—in fact she treats me more nicely, as does her mom. Am I a jerk for not loving her anymore?

My Girlfriend Got Plastic Surgery at My Request

Tags: Advice, Beauty, Fake, Friendship, Guilt, Relationships, Self Interest, Surgery

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25-Sep-2021


I’m Being Shamed for Not Being an “Activist” on Social Media. 

 

I know this is a ridiculous question but bear with me. Is it OK to not use my social media to post about activism, racial justice, etc.?

I (a white woman) work at a pro–racial justice nonprofit (and have done so my entire career), actively making decisions in my own life—schools, neighborhoods, houses of worship, etc.—to live my values. I have generally used social media to stay connected with folks and share more personal updates about my nonwork life. Last summer, I began feeling guilty that I didn’t engage in public activism on my social media. I follow a number of activist accounts, but don’t share or broadcast this. The guilt pushed me to post more actively about racial justice. But every time I posted, it was never just the right thing—folks on both sides of the political spectrum sent me messages nitpicking my phrasing or what I chose to share/not share, and I constantly felt angry and on edge. I also engaged less in in-person conversations because I was so jaded by the “unproductivity” of these online conversations.

I’m Being Shamed

Tags: Activism, Advice, Bullying, Culture, Environment, Guilt, Loneliness, Politics, Relationships, Social Distance, Social Media, Treatment

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12-Aug-2021


Want To Avoid Raising Entitled Kids? Don’t Do These 4 Things. 

 

“If your brain isn’t cognitively ready to imagine someone else’s experience, it’s harder to have empathy,” said Pressman.

Yet it is important that as kids move from toddler-dom into the school-age years, parents actively teach them that they will not always get their way. Parents also should explain to children that not getting their way may feel bad, which is expected.

For example, when your child is shopping for a friend’s birthday present and they ask for a toy of their own, don’t give in, Pressman urged. Instead, maybe say something like: “We’re going into the store to buy a present for Billy. I know sometimes that can feel hard, and it’s hard to focus,” Pressman said. That’s it.

You’re giving them space to grapple with what it feels like to not get their way, and you’re showing them that you expect them to get through it. It can be a pretty powerful lesson, particularly when it’s repeated often as a natural part of growing up.

Want To Avoid Raising Entitled Kids? Don’t Do These 4 Things.

Mother DELETES 14-year-old influencer daughter's social media account with 1.7 MILLION followers

Many parents are saying no to sleepovers. At what cost?

Tags: Advice, Children, Choices, Fear, Friendship, Mental Health, Neglect, Parental Burden, Responsibility, Self-defence, Training, Unruly Child

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11-Aug-2021




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