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My Wife Is Mad I Found Our Child’s Donor Siblings 

 

My wife and I, both women, have one child, who is now 5. We used a sperm donor from a federally licensed bank, to ensure our legal parental rights. I conceived and carried the baby, and both our names are on the birth certificate. Here’s the thing: A couple of months ago, I brought up with my wife the prospect of finding our kid’s donor siblings. She told me she wasn’t crazy about the idea but that I should go ahead and do what I want (obviously, this was said without enthusiasm). I brought it up to her several times after that, and her response was the same fatalistic, “Do what you want, obviously my wishes don’t matter here.” I took my spouse at her word, and started looking. In a secure, vetted fashion (through the sperm bank itself), I was able to find a group of other families who used the same donor. And there are a bunch of kids—over a dozen!

I am overjoyed. I’m excited about the prospect of meeting these families, of our children having close relationships with their half-siblings as they grow up. Seeing pictures, hearing family stories, and learning about medical histories are all great outcomes of this. And as a lesbian, I am excited to connect with a lot of other families, many of them LGBTQ, and have a sense of community with them. My wife is threatened by all of this. She says it feels like I am saying, “Here’s our kid’s real family.” I feel that her stance is emotionally immature and centers herself, not our child’s needs. My wife was really upset over my findings. She has asked me to not tell our child (yet?), and told me she felt hurt because deciding to contact donor siblings was something she wanted us to do together. Which is clearly not true!

My Wife Is Mad

Former Same-Sex Couple Sues State of Nebraska for Full Parenting Rights of Each Other's Children

'She was my soulmate and I vow swift justice and vengeance'

Tags: Advice, Crime, Death, DNA, Family, Laws, Lesbian, LGBTQ, Mental Health, Parental Burden, Police, Relationships, Respect, Support, Termination, Violence

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07-Jan-2022


American Parents Are Way Too Focused on Their Kids’ Self-Esteem 

 

American parents today are also quick to protect their kids from disappointment and failure. We give participation trophies when kids don’t win first place; we fly into the school to deliver kids’ forgotten homework. But these well-meaning interventions backfire because a child with healthy self-esteem is a child who has learned, through experience, that he can overcome obstacles and disappointment. He’s had the opportunity to fail and has discovered that failing doesn’t preclude him from being loved.

American Parents Are Way Too Focused on Their Kids’ Self-Esteem

14-year-old guns down three other teens in Texas store shooting

Queen's Guardsman flattens child who stepped into his path

Man begs for a positive COVID test to avoid visiting relatives

Tags: Accident, Advice, Americans, Children, Choices, Discipline, Family, Guns, Mental Health, Minors, Murder, Parental Burden, Parental Crime, Parenting, Psychology, Study, Treatment, Unruly Child, Video

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31-Dec-2021


Hollywood consumes half the oil from the Amazon rainforest 

 

“The world has failed us,” Correa said in 2013 as he announced a lifting of the moratorium on oil drilling in Yasuní.

The move to drill hundreds of new wells in the national park requires the building of roads and other infrastructure that is likely to accelerate deforestation, environmentalists say. Construction of an initial road inside the park is now less than 1,300 feet from the “no-go” zone designed to protect the uncontacted tribes, according to the report.

Crude reality

Toxic Things Celebrities Do

LA residents say homelessness crisis is city's biggest problem

I WANT GUN FOR PROTECTION

Beverly Hills Hires More Officers And Increases Patrols

Philadelphia now has more murders than NYC and LA and a DOZEN major US cities

Jogging is only good for you if the air is clean

Leo says his new movie is about about science denial and climate change (LOL)

Glute pumping, lip plumping, skin smoothing

'Somebody gift these people some vasectomies

Tags: Activism, Beauty, Celebrity, Competition, Danger, Effect, Environment, Exercise, Family, Fucking The Environment!, Health, Hollywood, Homeless, Ignorance, Interview, Oil, Opinion, Overpopulation, Parody, Police, Poverty, Protection, Protest, Sacrifice, Safety, Surge, Survival, Terraforming, Theft, Video, Violence

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29-Dec-2021


Our hypocritical leaders refuse to obey their own COVID-19 rules 

 

Wearing a mask is important. For you and those around you. For elected officials? Not so much.

Actually, all the COVID rules are for us, not them. COVID-19, and the accompanying lockdowns, have made it painfully clear: We plebes have to follow the rules; the elites do not.

Start with California Gov. Gavin Newsom, who last week groveled for forgiveness after being caught attending a large birthday dinner at The French Laundry restaurant in Napa Valley. When pictures from the event surfaced, the hypocrisy was glaring: The governor was seen with his wife at a large table full of maskless lobbyists, all sitting in close proximity.

But, hey: You’re not the governor — so if you want to celebrate Thanksgiving in his state, remember: “No more than three households, including your own,” at the gathering, and keep your distance.

Newsom isn’t the only one to live it up while everyone suffers. Gov. Cuomo, for example, is rarely seen in a mask, yet his Twitter feed never stops harassing you to “mask up.” (And, by the way, he’s just thrilled with himself over his handling of the COVID-19 crisis, even though it resulted in more deaths than any other state and, according to The New York Times, seeded the virus throughout the country.)

Our hypocritical leaders refuse to obey their own COVID-19 rules

Cuomo CANCELS his Thanksgiving plans amid accusations of hypocrisy

Chris Cuomo being accused of grabbing his former ABC boss' buttock in a bar in 2005

Chris Cuomo called her 'this Fox weather bitch'

CNN producer charged with luring girls for ‘sexual’ training

CNN producer, 44, boasted that he'd sexually trained girls as young as SEVEN

CNN creating propaganda AND pedos?

CNN employee has been initiated regarding 'serious allegations involving potential juvenile victims'

Tags: Cancelled, Celebration, Children, Choices, Confusion, Coronavirus, Employment, Enforcement, Exclusivity, Family, Holidays, Hypocrisy, Leaders, Masks, Neglect, Parental Crime, Rape, Representation, Sex, Society, Training, Treatment, Unruly Child

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29-Dec-2021


My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas. 

 

I am 19 years old, and a few months ago I came out to my parents and siblings. Everyone has been very accepting and loving. The problem is this: My younger sister told my uncle and aunt that I am a lesbian. (It was not done maliciously.) They’re top-of-the-line homophobes. They told my grandmother, who is now banning me from Christmas festivities that we celebrate every year.

I told my parents to just go without me and, while reluctant, they would like to go just to smooth things over. As we get closer to Christmas, I am getting depressed at the thought of being alone for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. I could go to my friend’s house, but that seems pathetic. Please help!

My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas.

Santa Claus shot & killed:

Tags: Advice, Ban, Celebration, Family, Holidays, Homophobia, Lesbian, LGBTQ, Murder, Parental Burden, Parental Pride, Sad

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24-Dec-2021


'You'd walk out if your husband hit you - you can't when it's your child' 

 

Last summer, 10-year-old Aidan decided he was going to kill the family dog. He lured her behind the sofa with a sausage before putting his hands over her muzzle and around her neck.

"The crazy thing is that he actually loves the dog and me the most out of anyone," says Aidan's mother, Hazel. "But we are the two that he will target and sometimes he will hurt her to get a reaction out of me."

Aidan kicks and hits, and he used to bite. He tells Hazel that he hates her and wants her to die, that he's going to get a gun and shoot her. He's tried to push her down the stairs, and now that he's worked out where her blind spots are - she has a visual impairment - he throws things at her that she can't see coming. Recently it was a kettle, which fortunately hadn't just been boiled - but Aidan didn't know it was cold when he picked it up and launched it.

You'd walk out if your husband hit you

Texas man, 40, 'set his house on fire, killing his brother, 54, and injuring his 82-year-old mother because they didn't follow the Bible'

Roommate, 26, 'murders renowned Maryland sculptor, 92

Mama, Damien (The Omen) and his dog. 26-Jul-2021

Tags: Adoption, Children, Choices, Family, Fear, Hate, Injury, Parental Burden, Religion, Sad, Safety, Seniors, Violence

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29-Jul-2021


I Think My Adult Stepsons May Be Sleeping Together. 

 

My husband and I are at crossroads about how to confront our sons about a discovery we made while visiting their shared flat. They are stepbrothers technically—note the word “technically.” My husband and I are both widowers who met and bonded at a support group for single parents surviving after cancer.

My son was 10 when I met my husband and 12 when we married. My stepson is 9 months younger, so they are very close in age. After a somewhat rocky start (both boys were grieving and trying to adjust to a new family norm), they became the best of friends, inseparable from about age 13. They even took the same classes together in high school so they could spend more time together, and made sure to go to the same university.

They are both adults now (25 and 26), live a state over, and rent a flat together. We went to visit them once COVID restrictions had eased, and my husband accidentally walked into the second bedroom (in a two-bedroom flat) thinking it was the bathroom, and discovered it was set up as an office. My husband’s curiosity got the better of him and he snuck around, discovering one king-sized bed in the only other bedroom that contained both of their stuff.

I Think My Adult Stepsons May Be Sleeping Together

Should I Tell My Father I Slept With His Horrible Wife?

Tags: Advice, Boundaries, Family, Gay, LGBTQ, Marriage, Parental Burden, Priorities, Relationships, Sex

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25-Jul-2021


How To Mess Up Your Relationship With Your Parents 

 

We all messed up the relationship with our parents at least once. Remember that time when dad didn’t talk to you for weeks? What about mom? Did she try to fix it up with a family dinner?

Well, you might not be that young, but what difference does this make. Most adults have a somewhat challenging relationship with their parents. While parents neglect the fact that you are a responsible grown-up, you are hiding behind their wisdom. How many times have you asked your parents for their advice regardless of their experience level? Hopefully, not too many times. We all make that mistake because we neglect that our parents don’t know it all.

Two out of three (66%) of adolescents age 12–17 live with both parents, 24% with their mother only, 5% with their father only, and 5% with neither parent [1]. The quality of parents’ relationships makes a difference to children in many ways. — Act for Youth

How To Mess Up Your Relationship With Your Parents

Gayle King reveals she is BANNING unvaccinated family members from Thanksgiving

Moms and dads watch while children, aged 5 to 7, engage in 'full-on fight fest' after school in Brooklyn park

Mayor de Blasio insists mask mandate WILL be in effect in NYC public schools this fall despite latest CDC guidance

Parents of toddler who plunged 150 feet to her death when her grandfather accidentally dropped her from deck of cruise ship have lost

CBS News reporter quits, says she can now 'be candid' about her support for 'abortion rights'

5-Year-Old Ohio Boy Shot by 'Intoxicated' Mother, Currently in Stable Condition, Police Say

Teen shot friend in West Jordan church parking lot

Far more adults don’t want children than previously thought

Marie Claire sparks outrage among pro-life groups with article saying Hollywood should depict MORE abortions because that is more reflective of reality

Tags: Abortion, Advice, Ban, Celebration, Celebrity, Children, Choices, Coronavirus, Family, History, Opinion, Parental Burden, Perception, Protection, Psychology, Relationships, Responsibility, Safety, Survival, Treatment, Vaccine

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19-Jul-2021


My Son’s Girlfriend Won’t Take the Hint That I Hate Her 
 

I hate my son’s girlfriend of 13 years. They are high school sweethearts who are now 30 and talking about buying property and eventually starting a family together. He currently lives at home and helps pay my mortgage, among other things. If he leaves, I will be forced to sell the house and adjust to a new lifestyle. I feel she will keep me away from my son when they move out. I have tried everything to split them apart and often make her feel unwelcome in my home and talk about her negatively to almost anyone who will listen. I even make her bring her own food when she stays here. Why can’t she just get the point that no one wants her here and move on!? What else can I do to get rid of her?

My Son’s Girlfriend Won’t Take the Hint That I Hate Her

Tags: Advice, Family, Guns, Hate, Laws, Parental Crime, Politics, Relationships, Safety, Women In Charge

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05-Jun-2021


My grandchild is trans, what do I do?

 

“My granddaughter just informed me she has decided she would be happier living as a boy, and she has gone so far as to legally change her name,” the grandmother, labeling herself “Grandma in Pain” wrote. “I want to be supportive, but I admit I’m having a lot of trouble accepting it, or at least figuring out how to deal with it.”

“She’s my only grandchild and most likely the only one I’ll ever have,” Grandma in Pain continued. I loved my granddaughter with all my heart, and I don’t know how to shift gears to a grandson. I keep stumbling when I try to use the new name. I would welcome any suggestions you could make, including information about support groups you might know of.”

My grandchild is trans, what do I do?

Tags: Advice, Change, Choices, Etiquette, Family, Grandparent, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Respect, Seniors, Sex Identity, Trans

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15-Mar-2021


Should I Abort My Pregnancy and Tell My Husband I Miscarried? 

 

I am happily married, financially stable, and a mom of a beautiful, feral toddler. On a drunken night I convinced myself that I did, in fact, want a sibling for my toddler—quite the 180 from my staunch stance of being “one and done!” I’m now 10 weeks pregnant with my second child and plagued with nausea, vomiting, and most of all regret. Should I terminate this pregnancy and tell all (including my husband) that I miscarried? He, his parents, and my parents are all excited about baby No. 2. I, however, am completely disappointed in myself for having a lapse in judgment and thinking I would be OK with getting pregnant again.

Should I Abort My Pregnancy and Tell My Husband I Miscarried?

Tags: Abortion, Advice, Children, Choices, Enforcement, Family, Parental Burden, Pregnancy, Priorities, Privacy, Responsibility, Safety, Woman's Rights

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13-Mar-2021


We Can Raise Boys To Become Good Men By Treating Them Like Girls 

 

When I was a kid in the 1970s, the “tomboy” was queen — or maybe king. Even a non-sporty girl like me was dressed in the unisex uniforms of white-piped track shorts, Keds, and t-shirts, just like my brother. The lesson I learned from my parents, peers, the media, and the passage of Title IX in 1972, was that I had legal right to everything culturally marked as “for boys.”

But the same access to girls’ worlds has still not been granted to boys. Despite the recent media focus on toxic masculinity, boys still feel insistent pressure to be violent, to shut down emotions, to watch porn, and to have sex even when they don’t want or aren’t ready to. They feel pressure to reject anything associated with what’s culturally marked as “feminine” — kindness, vulnerability, love, seeking help, let alone dolls and the color pink — and pressure to look down on girls and women. Boys learn that “girly” is an insult, and they must at all costs distance themselves from it.

We Can Raise Boys To Become Good Men By Treating Them Like Girls

Tags: Awareness, Books, Boy's Rights, Choices, Environment, Family, LGBTQ, NSFW, Opinion, Parental Burden, Sex, Writing

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10-Mar-2021


Mom Making Thousands on OnlyFans Is 'Praying' for Parent Who Reported Her to Sons' Catholic School 

 

It's been a little over a week since the California mom told PEOPLE her three sons were expelled from Sacred Heart Parish School in Sacramento due to her presence on the adult social platform.

Despite her family parting ways with the Catholic school — which previously said "we cannot discuss the status or circumstances of any member of our school or parish community" — Crystal, 44, claims she's still being harassed by the same mom who initially reported her page to the principal after her husband found it.

"I think she tries to deflect her unhappiness on other people and that's a bad way to live your life," she continues. "I really hope she can find some peace within herself to help her with whatever issues she has."

Mom Making Thousands on OnlyFans Is 'Praying' for Parent Who Reported Her to Sons' Catholic School

Tags: Cancelled, Children, Choices, Education, Employment, Environment, Family, Fantasy, Interference, Judgment, KARENS afoot, Misrepresentation, NSFW, Parental Burden, Punishment, Sex, Tension, Threat, Women In Charge

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03-Mar-2021


My Husband Has Been Sexting His Cousin. 

 

Q. I want to puke: I recently found out that my husband has been sexting his cousin! I’m at a loss. Just devastated. It’s bad enough that he has been sexting another woman, but it is with his first cousin and it has been going on for years! We’ve been married for 30 years! I feel like if it were any other woman, I could deal with this. And, my God, I wish it was someone else.

I feel trapped! I feel like I can’t talk to anyone about this! All I can think of is how disgusting and disappointed my children, who are in their 20s, and his family would be. We spend a lot of time together with his family and are very close. (No pun intended.) His sisters are like sisters to me. In fact, one of the sisters is best friends with the cousin! I can’t think straight! Please help me help myself! They both have said it hasn’t gone beyond texting, but from the messages I saw, I believe it would or could have.

My Husband Has Been Sexting His Cousin.

Tags: Advice, Cheating, Environment, Etiquette, Family, Horniness, Lifestyle, Marriage, Men In Charge, Mental Health, Misconduct, Opportunity, Relationships, Sex

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01-Mar-2021


My Aunt Says It’s a “Choice” to Be Offended by Racial Slurs. 

 

Q. Aunt wants to “get over” racial slurs: My aunt (father’s sister) and I have had a fairly acrimonious relationship since I was in my teens, mostly because of her dislike of my mother. Fast forward to Christmas of this year, when I texted my aunt and her husband to thank them for some cookies they sent me. We started talking again, exchanging memes and discussing our shared love of photography, in what I had hoped was a fresh start. Talk turned to politics eventually, because we both believed our politics aligned somewhat—me more as a leftist, and her a liberal.

However, when I mentioned that I was happy to see white people experience consequences when they used slurs such as the N-word, she said it was a “choice” to be offended by slurs like that, and how people needed to get over it. She even spelled it out. I was totally bewildered. We are both white women. I told her it was inappropriate and racist for her to write or say that word. She continued to use it, saying she should be able to because it was “just a word.” I went on to provide her with multiple sources about why it was offensive and racist. She then said how I was “looking for reasons to have contempt for her” and how she and “the family” have never understood why I’ve always hated her. This went on and on until I eventually stopped responding. However, she’s texted me every day this past week, trying to talk again like nothing’s happened. So how do I address the obvious racism with someone who thinks she’s “the most accepting and multicultural person in our family” for one, and secondly, always makes herself out to be the victim when I disagree with her on anything?

My Aunt Says It’s a “Choice” to Be Offended by Racial Slurs.

Tags: Advice, Argument, Choices, Family, Judgment, Misconduct, Racism, Relationships, Segregation, Struggling, Treatment, Words

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18-Feb-2021




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