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Does the older guy in a relationship have to be the responsible one?
Another person wrote: “I know what you mean, as an older gay man (63) who is still young-looking and not in bad shape, and I’ve been approached as well in this way,” one wrote. “However, I’m dead-set against the idea of ‘sugar daddying’ somebody. If I want a romantic partner, they have to pull their own weight, just I’d expect myself to do in any relationship.”
Does the older guy
AEBN Reveals Popular Searches by Country
In the gay theaters, noted a rep, Australia, Brazil, Poland and the United Kingdom were frequently searching “Straight lads spanked.”
AEBN Reveals Popular Searches by Country
Old Gays/Gus Kentworthy
Do gay men have a particular problem with getting older?
Are gay men particularly terrified of getting older?
None of us wants to get older and we’d all like to stop the clock if we could. But I’m beginning to wonder if gay men in particular struggle with ageing.
Now in my late 40s, I think my mental health is pretty good most of the time. For that I’m grateful. But when I look around, I see too many of my peers battling to cope. Struggling to the point of suicide.
Again, this isn’t just a gay problem. Despite the privilege we enjoy, men are disproportionately likely to die from suicide than women by a ratio of around 3 to 1. Some associate this with issues around masculinity: not talking about one’s feelings, and being too afraid or embarrassed to ask for help.
Combine toxic masculinity with homophobia (both internal and external), and it’s little surprise that gay men suffer from additional mental health challenges.
But this still doesn’t explain why I’m seeing so many gay men in their 40s and 50s in distress
Gay Star News
MI5 fantasist caught on webcam torturing and murdering gay man with clingfilm is jailed for 39 years
A sadistic killer who was caught on camera torturing a man after gaining entry to his west London home for gay sex has been jailed for at least 39 years. Jason Marshall, 29, listened to Classic FM as he bound and gagged Peter Fasoli before wrapping clingfilm around the 58-year-old victim's face.
He posed as an MI5 agent and a police officer after meeting Fasoli on a gay dating app. Marshall then set fire to the property in Northolt in an attempt to cover up the murder, the Old Bailey heard.
International Business Times
Police investigate whether gay financier was killed in hook-up that went wrong
Police in New York City are investigating whether financier and CEO Neil Smith died in a hook-up that went wrong.
Smith, 57, the founder of data analytics investment firm Infraccess, was found dead at his Brooklyn apartment on 19 June. Multiple media outlets have reported that he was found with a pillow over his head and with a wet towel wrapped around his face.
Initial autopsy reports were inconclusive, but according to New York Daily News, police sources say that a medical examiner has now ruled that the successful entrepreneur died from asphyxiation and his death is being treated as homicide.
Gay Star News
Distraught singer Sinéad O'Connor on skids at motel in New Jersey
Troubled troubadour Sinead O’Connor is down on her luck again and living in a shoddy hotel “in the arse-end” of New Jersey, according to a recent Facebook post.
The 50-year-old Irish singer, best known for her Prince-penned hit, “Nothing Compares 2 U,” sobbed in the short video as she talks about what it’s like to be far away from her family and isolated because of her mental illness.
“I gave so much love in my life and I just can’t understand how a person can be left all alone,” O’Connor said in the 12-minute video posted Thursday.
“I hope this video will be helpful,” O’Connor continued, as she detailed how she had to flee Ireland to avoid the stigma of suffering from three mental illnesses.
NY Daily News
Georgia grandmother charged with murder after pit bulls attack, kill grandson
A Georgia woman was charged with murder after her grandson was mauled to death by her two pit bulls.
Sandra Adams, 70, was babysitting the 20-month-old toddler Tuesday afternoon at her Hartwell home when the dogs jumped on the little boy, Georgia Bureau of Investigation said in a news release.
Police said Adams and the child were in the backyard of the home and when she went to reenter the house, the dogs charged past her and started attacking the little boy.
Ny Daily News
Witness says Penn State's Sandusky molested him in 2001
BELLEFONTE, Pa. (Reuters) - A 29-year-old man told a Pennsylvania court on Friday that Jerry Sandusky molested him as a boy in 2001, even though he admitted he had denied that the former Penn State football coach abused him during the investigation of the scandal.
The surprise testimony by Allan Myers came during a hearing into Sandusky's bid for a retrial on charges that he had molested 10 boys under his care over the years. His 2012 conviction resulted in his imprisonment for up to 30 years.
In 2012, prosecutors decided against calling Myers as a witness in the trial, deeming him to be unreliable. Sandusky's lawyer called Myers to testify in Friday's hearing even though the lawyer was not sure what Myers would say once he got to the stand.
Myers on Friday confirmed that he was the long-unidentified boy who was seen with the ex-coach in a Penn State shower room. But he never specifically said that Sandusky had molested him during that shower, as a witness at the ex-coach's trial testified.
Sandusky's bid for a new trial has revived a scandal that severely damaged the reputation of Pennsylvania State University and the vaunted football program run by the legendary head coach Joe Paterno, who has since died.
Myers offered little reason for changing his story beyond what he said was his confusion when he learned that investigators believed he was the boy seen in the shower. He said he needed to "sort things out" at the time.
New Jersey man, 59, arrested for wearing clear plastic bikini on beach
BEACH HAVEN, N.J. - Police say a 59-year-old man who wore a bikini fashioned out of see-through plastic wrap on a New Jersey beach is facing a criminal charge.
They say Stephen Wojciehowski spent two days on a Long Beach Island beach wearing a homemade bikini in which his genitals were clearly exposed and was charged with lewdness.
NJ.com reports the Stafford Township man was arrested Monday and was released pending further court proceedings.
John Travolta: Caught Kissing Another Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do we have another John Travolta gay scandal on our hands?
Simply put: No.
But it's worth explaining why some people are under this impression.
Travolta was recently in Butler County, Ohio to shoot scenes from the movie The Life and Death of John Gotti.
At some point, he decided to drop the office of Sheriff Richard K. Jones, posing with the law enforcement official for a photo that went semi-viral on Twitter.
Because Travolta is shaking hands with Jones? Not exactly.
It's because Jones captioned the image as follows:
"Unexpected visit, unexpected kiss.. Awesome meeting Mr. John Travolta!!"
The Hollywood Gossip
Bryan Cranston Apologizes for Offending Gay Power Rangers Actor
Bryan Cranston has apologized for derogatory comments he allegedly made about gay actor David Yost’s role as the original blue ranger in “Mighty Morphin Power Rangers.”
In a 2009 IGN interview Cranston referred to the blue ranger as “fey,” though it’s unclear whether he was referring to the character or the actor who played him.
“When I read that interview, which took place about a year before I came out publicly, it really hurt me,” Yost told NBC Out on Friday, expressing mixed feelings about Cranston’s casting in the new “Power Rangers” theatrical reboot.
Frontiers Fires Lesbian Reporter For Being Too Old
A renowned and respected lesbian reporter was just sacked for being too old -- and the publication that fired her is LGBT!
LGBT Nation reports that 66-year-old news editor Karen Ocamb was called into the Frontiers Magazine office during her vacation, and summarily fired.
Edge Media Network
Heartbreaking Photo Of Grandad Who Cooked For All Six Grandkids - But Only One Turned Up
He had made 12 burgers in anticipation of dinner with his grandchildren.
So he would have felt more than a touch of disappointment when all but one failed to show.
Let's Not Forget:
Larry Kramer in love and anger (1935 - pres.)
"Plague! We are in the middle of a fucking plague! Plague! 40 million infected people is a fucking plague. And nobody acts as if it is." When Larry Kramer gave this speech in September 1991 — ten years after The New York Times reported the appearance of a strange form of 'gay cancer' — AIDS had killed 150,000 people in America alone. "And nobody knows what to do next."