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I am now single and available to pop balloons at parties. 18-May-2019
If you want to curb mental illness, bring us more joy. 16-May-2019
Life lessons have taught my amazons to be more understanding. They are fully supporting me and I couldn't be more proud and humbled. 15-May-2019
Sometimes the only way to get help is to ask for it. H... 14-May-2019
I've changed my mind about spirituality. You can believe whatever you want as long as it keeps your heart beating and no one gets hurt. Amen. 14-May-2019
Editing porn granted me power over sex. 11-May-2019
My geniuses were the people whose art kept me alive. I decided to stop naming them because its not fair to the artistry of the mind. 10-May-2019
Nature relies on co-dependency while humanity insinuates it's a mental risk. 09-May-2019
I was advised that if I had acquiesced to more "me toos," I might have been a more joyous person. 07-May-2019
If being free means being by yourself then why bother? I was already good at that. 04-May-2019
Thank you for giving me the confidence to express a different opinion. 02-May-2019
Lately I've been feeling like a melted trophy. 02-May-2019
If you can’t predict the future ramifications of advice dispensed to your client you shouldn’t give it. Therapy, Psychology and Psychiatry should never be based on the trustee's personal beliefs. As a gay man in a relationship the go to at the slightest hint of a problem is to dispense with it and adopt another so you can empower yourself. You get to repeat the cycle again and again in every future relationship without ever resolving the problem. Causing chaos to an existing relationship is not betterment. We would never disrupt a straight marriage without pushback. All gays are not drawn the same. I don't care what anyone does in their relationships but forcing us into the web of revolving sex to end up lonely and suicidal is not what I'm striving for. Our community will never thrive if all we recommend is another mouth that bites.
When I came out I had romantic notions. The first thing our daddies teach is to share sex with multiple partners to the point of isolation and disrespect. I don't want to be a gaybot stereotype and I wish that we could recognize another form to communicate life satisfaction to each other. It offends me highly and we all end up miserable.
You might hold the pencil but I have an eraser.
The biggest lesson I received from "me too" was when to keep my mouth shut. Those miracles they address so regularly are rarely awarded to "everyone." How much fairness can there be if in order to "feel better" I need to become Igor from Frankenstein constantly apologizing and calling chills of darkness, master. Safety first. 28-Apr-2019
The trip to betterment is arduous. Sometimes it feels like a betrayal of self but letting it go is my improvement. As an erratic person I could allow both personalities space to discharge but to become acceptable to the world I move correctly and detached. 09-Apr-2019