Wisps Posts Tagged as 'Women'
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Everything we hate about the world God gave us. 03-Oct-2018
The word you never want to hear from your doctor when discussing your symptoms...."ewwww". 07-Sep-2018
Ladies. The reason your men can afford to hate you is because they have us. 07-Aug-2018
My lover wanted to chime in..."it's actually a version of racism. Hailing a few black artists as geniuses when they are simply doing the same kinds of things as white, latin, and asian counterparts demeans all of the other black artists that are out there - often doing better work. It's diminishing in a way..."
The word genius is being falsely assigned to artists that keep white America feeling safe and the deed of reparations alive. When you start naming women's historical genius contributions, I will listen, if not, I'm not buying it. 17-May-2018
My mother had five brothers and sisters just like the Brady Bunch. There were three girls and three boys. My mother was Jan always seeking attention, Big sis was Marcia always getting attention and baby sister was Cindy with the blond curls and angelic facsimile.
Baby sister was born of sin. My grandmother was a pentecostal zealot who was deluded by her pastor. She cleaned his house and tended to his disabled wife. She must have regarded him especially because she became pregnant with twins. My grandfather wouldn't have noticed except the twins were fraternal and even though my favorite aunt was as white as the driven snow her twin was brown. None of my grandparents are brown. My grandfather thought it the worst indignity and he walked out on his family, stranding my grandmother with six kids and extreme poverty.
My grandfather ended up moving to New York and finding success but the spurned cheater struggled every minute of her life in the wastelands of Puerto Rico.
My grandmother awaited forever for the pastor to do the right thing. He helped her out by suggesting she take her oldest (15) daughter out of school and have her work for him at his house to clear the time for my grandmother to find full-time work. To the disillusionment of Big sis it happened. The work was grueling and cruel because he demanded a spotless house and he raped her constantly. Big sis argued and complained to grandmother who would cover her ears and wipe the assault clean. Big sis sought solace with my mother. She would confide that she couldn't take it anymore. My mother took it upon herself to find her dad in New York and begged him to send for her to save her from the abhorrent situation. He agreed to send for her but he wouldn't take care of her. He didn't want the responsibility of a horny teenager blemished through sex. He sent money for the flight but other relatives would take her in. My aunt never looked back.
Pastor, on the other hand, was left without household help. It soon became apparent to mother that grandma was forcing her out of school so she could fulfill her Big sis' destiny. I presume this is where mother's super cleanliness obsession was born. Pastor couldn't keep his hands off mother either, except my mother could hit back and run faster. He tried relentlessly but mother claims he never pinned her down. At the first opportunity, my mother married the first man that would drag her out of hell. That man was my father. 10-Apr-2018
Men, you seem to be confused of what to say about the "me too" movement. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Just tell them you love them, you stand by them and you will do everything in your power to protect them and their daughters, mothers, sisters, et al. Is that so hard? 12-Feb-2018
Why do hetero men secretly huddle to discuss and define every detail of sex without any input from the object of their desires? 06-Feb-2018
A woman is only naked if a man sees her. 03-Feb-2018
I was raised by Amazons. The only way a man could usurp power was by detonating elsewhere, avoiding, colliding, humiliating and repaying. Those who wielded unwarranted conviction were made love to but never exalted. The many men, including myself, would willingly provide all income, overtime pay and proof of such. We received an allowance that enabled travel and nourishment but not anything that would celebrate non-family enjoyment. The Amazons guarded and manipulated the money, the children and the home. The more money, the bigger the celebration, the less, the bigger the wrath. There was no man to look up to because there was always an Amazon to kick his feet off the pedestal. Imagine my surprise when I enlisted in reality and women declared inequality. 20-Dec-2017