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We Can Raise Boys To Become Good Men By Treating Them Like Girls

When I was a kid in the 1970s, the “tomboy” was queen — or maybe king. Even a non-sporty girl like me was dressed in the unisex uniforms of white-piped track shorts, Keds, and t-shirts, just like my brother. The lesson I learned from my parents, peers, the media, and the passage of Title IX in 1972, was that I had legal right to everything culturally marked as “for boys.”

But the same access to girls’ worlds has still not been granted to boys. Despite the recent media focus on toxic masculinity, boys still feel insistent pressure to be violent, to shut down emotions, to watch porn, and to have sex even when they don’t want or aren’t ready to. They feel pressure to reject anything associated with what’s culturally marked as “feminine” — kindness, vulnerability, love, seeking help, let alone dolls and the color pink — and pressure to look down on girls and women. Boys learn that “girly” is an insult, and they must at all costs distance themselves from it.

We Can Raise Boys To Become Good Men By Treating Them Like Girls

Do Women Really Want Their Men “A Little Fruity?”

California lawmaker on the harms of gender transition

The left fueled the male crisis. Now it's shocked.

Tags: Awareness, Books, Boy's Rights, Choices, Environment, Family, LGBTQ, Men, NSFW, Opinion, Parental Burden, Sex, Women, Writing

Filed under: Health/Food

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08-Jun-2026

What Gay Men Want In A Relationship

Gay relationships have a lot of similarities with heterosexual relationships. Gay men like to have meaningful relationships though they face challenges that all men face on the dating scene. Naturally, men are not socialized to be intimate since this is perceived as weakness. Gay men who enter into a relationship also have to contend with worries about the promiscuity of their partners. Intimacy requires vulnerability which is not easy since men who are gay often get exposed to negative cultural messages. This emanates from the fact that gays are treated shamefully by the society which makes it hard to be vulnerable. At times gay men get harassed and bullied for not conforming to the standards of the society.

What Gay Men Want In A Relationship

Gay romance: is all fair in love and war?

What gay stereotypes have you found to be true?

Gay bros drop essential hacks to suss out Grindr catfish

“I married my father”

This gay Tiktoker’s guide to catching print is going viral

Are these realities that many gay men won’t admit to themselves?

Tags: App, Choices, Community, Dating, Environment, Family, Fashion, History, Intimacy, Love, Men, Mental Health, Misrepresentation, Opinion, Relationships, Romance, Sex, Study

Filed under: Gay+

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13-Apr-2026

Another study shows homophobic language isn’t linked to rejection of gay athletes

Another new study from Monash University again demonstrates that athletes using gay slurs don’t mean to convey messages of homophobia to their teammates, and in fact believe their teams would be welcoming places for gay athletes.

The study focused on 146 semi-professional ice hockey players in Australia. The sample group included a good mix of players from North America, Europe and Australia.

One of the most illuminating parts of the study looked at why athletes use gay slurs. Some of the results:

55% because they want to make people laugh
46% think the language is normal, so no one thinks about it
6% want to insult or bully others who are gay
1% say they are homophobic

...homophobic language isn’t linked to rejection of gay athletes

College football’s short shorts craze has gay fans loving it

LGBTQ fans driven away from Premier League match by gay slurs and chants

Tags: All Rights, Entertainment, Environment, Fashion, Homophobia, Inclusion, Language, LGBTQ, Men, Poll, Preference, Self Interest, Sexual Harassment, Sports, Treatment, Trending, World

Filed under: Gay+

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04-Feb-2026

The ‘A’ is not for ‘Ally’

As an asexual person, I can often feel excluded from the wider LGBTQ+ community. It can feel as if we are tolerated rather than welcomed, and sometimes even like we’re outright rejected. Having our validity disputed by LGBTQ+ peers is the most hurtful form of exclusion I have experienced.

The ‘A’ is not for ‘Ally’

Finding love as a gay man feels impossible

What little things make you lose interest in a guy?

It’s time to work toward a healthier relationship standard for queer men

‘Gutter trash f–king my friend in my own house’

Texas gay campground doubles-down on banning transgender men from property

Greece may soon ban surrogacy for gay men

Angry mob rampages trans picnic, burning Pride flag & threatning to stab people

Gen Z Rebels Against “Gay Acceptance”

Tags: Asexual, Ban, Camp, Cheating, Community, Dating, Etiquette, Exclusivity, Gay, Hypocrisy, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Loneliness, Medical, Men, Opinion, Parental Burden, Politics, Preference, Privacy, Rejection, Relationships, Sex, Struggles, Trans, Violence, World

Filed under: Gay+

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03-Feb-2026

SURPRISE RESEARCH FINDS MEN ARE JUDGED MORE HARSHLY THAN WOMEN FOR SLEEPING AROUND

In a surprising new study, behavioral scientists found that people tended to judge men more harshly than women for having casual sex.

To get the unexpected findings, recently published in the journal Sexuality and Culture, researchers at the University of Nevada surveyed respondents between the ages of 18 and 69 — yes, we're giggling too — and asked them to evaluate one of eight fictional targets.

MEN ARE JUDGED

Former stripper claims 'scary truth' that 80 percent of men cheat

Man at strip club calls 911 after employee refuses to provide sex

Women and non-binary Uber riders will soon be able to request women drivers

The Myth of Sex Addiction

Tags: $, Addiction, Advice, Arrest, Change, Cheating, Danger, Men, NSFW, Opinion, Police, Safety, Sex, Sex Worker, Sexual Harassment, Strippers, Study, Travel, Violence, Woman's Rights, Women

Filed under: Gay+

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02-Dec-2025

I’ve Suddenly Noticed My Husband Doesn’t Measure Up

I have a recurring thought that might turn into a problem. I’m married to a man I adore, and we have an incredible sex life that I wouldn’t change for the world. Passionate, fun, multiple orgasms per session. However, while my body is overjoyed, my mind is struggling. My husband is slightly shorter than average, and his dick is slightly smaller than average as well. This is something I’ve always known and has never impacted our sex life. But I had a friend complaining about a below-average-sized lover, and it got me all in my head. Now when I look at my husband in bed, I can’t not notice that he’s smaller than what society says he should be. I never thought about it before, but it’s making me feel less attracted to him now. I find myself less inclined to give him hand jobs or blow jobs because I don’t want to think about his size. Why am I obsessing over this when I find sex with him so pleasurable? How do I get over this?

—Little Problem

I’ve Suddenly Noticed My Husband Doesn’t Measure Up

Is it true ejaculating 21 times a month will drastically lower my husband’s risk of getting prostate cancer?

What Is the Average Penis Size

Video Shows Woman Being Violently Assaulted During Rose Bowl Concert

Tags: Advice, Anatomy, Attack, Exercise, Fear, Future, Health, Humiliation, Interference, Masturbation, Men, Music, Pride, Relationships, Science, Self Interest, Sex, Study, Treatment, Violence, Women In Charge

Filed under: Health/Food

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19-Aug-2025

Former kennel owner and wife allegedly had threesome with ‘Demon’ doberman

A former kennel owner was indicted in Virginia this week on multiple counts of bestiality and animal cruelty, according to reports.

The charges include an allegation that Richard Patterson, 48, and his wife, Christina Patterson, 42, both from Suffolk, had the front toenails of a male dog removed so they could more easily have sex with the animal, according to court documents.

Former kennel owner and wife

Clueless dog owners slammed by irate animal rights activists

Mother-of-two helped run global monkey torture network

Southern California man admits to beating sick sea lion on Ventura beach

...tourist who kicked airport sniffer beagle into the air gets satisfying punishment

Tags: Abuse, Animals, Attack, Hunting, Injury, Killer, Lifestyle, Men, Misconduct, Murder, Parental Crime, Privilege, Reckless, Relationships, Safety, Sex, Threat, Torture, Travel, Treatment, Violence, Warning, Women, Women In Charge

Filed under: Health/Food

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27-Jun-2025

Young men reveal why they’re single

They’re single but they’re not mingling.

New data from the Pew Research Center has shown that 63% of men under 30 are single – up from 51% in 2019.

COVID isolation and women’s high expectations for something serious are the main reasons they’re avoiding going out and coupling up, young guys say.

“Dates feel more like job interviews now. Much more like ‘What can you do for me and where is this going?'” said Ian Breslow, a 28-year-old high school teacher who lives in Astoria.

Young men reveal why they’re single

11-year-old reads aloud from ‘pornographic’ book

‘I’m a father and I couldn’t do this’

Gay couple beaten in Times Square

A return to chastity?

Man, 26, poses as teen at high schools, now charged with sex crimes

‘I was sucking and cutting at the same time’

Why are so many gay men single?

I use 'we/us' pronouns but that's not why I missed out on a much-needed job

Media warns of incoming “speedo summer”

Tags: Awareness, Books, Children, Disease, Disruption, Education, Employment, Enforcement, Environment, Fashion, Fear, Funny, Future, Gay, Hostility, Injury, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Marriage, Men, Misrepresentation, Murder, Parental Burden, Parental Crime, Rejection, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Abuse, Shutdown, Snitch, Terraforming, Video, Violence, What Men Want, Women In Charge, Youth

Filed under: Health/Food

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26-Jun-2025

'They look like linebackers with boobs.'

An ex-inmate of a California women's prison has spoken of the terror of being locked up with 'big, burly and aggressive' male-to-female transgender detainees thanks to a recent state law.

'They look like linebackers with boobs.'

Lesbian Dating App Uses Facial Recognition to Exclude Trans Women

Trans detainee 'lives in fear' of reprisals now he's back in an all-male lockup

Bachelorette Star Accused Of Faking Gender Transition For Attention

Hulking transgender athletes take gold, silver and bronze spots on female podium

Black trans nonprofit leader allegedly stole $99K for a Mercedes & luxury goods

Almost two thirds of transgender women in prisons are serving sentences for sex offences

Trans child molester held in women's prison 'sexually assaulted cellmate

Tangled web of 'Zizian cult' duo who planned to marry and were both netted for separate murders

Unhinged trans-rights protester lunges at conservative NYC mom

Tags: $, ?, App, Ban, Burden, Charity, Children, Confusion, Crime, Dating, Differences, Employment, Equality, Fear, Greed, Hostility, Humiliation, Interference, LGBTQ, Men, Murder, Opportunity, Preference, Prison, Protest, Punishment, Rape, Safety, Sex, Sexual Abuse, Sports, Terror, Theft, Threat, Trans, Vegan, Violence, Woman's Rights, Women

Filed under: Gay+

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22-Mar-2025

Gay bro says his dog stopped respecting him after watching him bottom

“The guy was being pretty rough and I was getting into it moaning being slutty you know bottom things until the top pointed out the dog was watching us,” he writes. “I got him out of the room and closed the door but since then my dog doesn’t seem to want to listen to me, respect my authority, or even spend much time with me. I try to pet or hug him and he growls or moves away, that wasn’t the case before.”

Gay bro says...

I’m okay with my son being gay… as long as he’s not a bottom

My Husband and I Don’t Have Sex. It’s Hard to Stomach What He Does Instead

Tags: Advice, Animals, Confusion, Environment, Etiquette, Father, Gay, Humiliation, LGBTQ, Men, Nature, NSFW, Parental Burden, Pets, Profiling, Sex, Shutdown, Training

Filed under: Health/Food

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08-Dec-2024

Kirk Franklin’s eldest son Kerrion allegedly called gospel singer his ‘molester’, reveals new audio leak

YouTuber Armon Wiggins shared a video on Thursday, March 18, 2021, in which he revealed a "receipt" he got where someone, who said his name is "Kerrion," referred to Kirk as his "molester." The audio was recorded at a hostel in Los Angeles during 2020 Christmas Day, according to the information Armon received from his source.

In the leaked audio, during a conversation with his friends, Kerrion claimed that he's the son of a "famous person." Later, when Kirk's music was played, he said, "Thanks for playing my molester's music."

Kirk Franklin’s eldest son Kerrion

Sean 'Diddy' Combs' son accused of sex assault

Parents tried to ‘solicit males’ to engage in sex acts with 2-year-old

Sean 'Diddy' Combs accused of sexually assaulting teenager in new lawsuits

Former Abercrombie & Fitch CEO charged with sex trafficking

Omar Torres arrested on suspicion of lewd acts with a child

Township supervisor gets reelected after being arrested for trying to sext with a minor

Athens man accused of attempting to solicit 15-year-old for sex

Former Ripon varsity boys basketball coach faces sex crime charges involving a minor

Jay-Z Accused Of Rape

Tags: Accusation, Backlash, Business, Celebrity, Celebrity Children, Children, Court, Family, Fashion, Gay, Hate, LGBTQ, Men, Parental Crime, Parties, Rape, Religion, Resignation, Sex, Sex Worker, Sexual Abuse, Trafficking, Video

Filed under: Gay+

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08-Dec-2024

Here Are the Porn Terms Gays Searched For the Most in 2023

While “no fats, no femmes, no Asians,” seems to be a common refrain amongst gay men in real life and on Grindr, when it comes to porn, gay men love to see Asians and femmes, almost as much as they love to see a straight guy having gay sex.

Here Are the Porn Terms

Max Lorde shares his, ahem, unusual ritual before bottoming

Gay guys describe the male physiques that really get them going

...most-viewed gay porn categories in each US state

Twinks rule the world...

Here’s who should pay on gay dates...

What fantasies are hot in theory, but not in practice?

Man desperately wants to know if he’s going to be into twinks forever

Tags: $, Choices, Dating, Gay, LGBTQ, List, Men, NSFW, Porn, Preference, Sex, Video, What Men Want

Filed under: Gay+

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03-Dec-2024

I secretly had sex with a bunch of 'straight' guys

I started hooking up with a guy on my brother's soccer team when I was 13 years old.

I secretly hooked up with a few other players and fell in love with one of them.

I secretly had sex

Grant Coulson Gets Cheated On Days After Coming Out As Gay

NFL's 1st Gay Cheer Captains

What hard truths do gay men need to hear?

Sketch addresses allegations of being gay

I tried hooking up with a guy to see if I’m gay, but now I regret it

Republican National Convention dubbed 'the Grindr Superbowl'

...if this is your fetish, can you still identify as straight?

2 Nigerian Brothers Sentenced For Sextortion

TikToker has a theory on bi men misusing “gay privilege”

Tags: Addiction, Bi, Blackmail, Bullying, Child Abuse, Children, Choices, Cultural, Education, Environment, Gay, Hate, Hypocrisy, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Men, Mental Health, Minors, NSFW, Opinion, Parental Burden, Parental Responsibility, Politics, Portrait, Relationships, Replacement, Sex, Sex Identity, Sex Worker, Sexual Harassment, Social Media, Sports, Study, Suicide, Takeover, Threat, Vulnerable, World, Youth

Filed under: Gay+

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23-Oct-2024

Everyone Really Hates Anti-Vaxxers and Keto

Okay, everybody, the Worst Wellness Trend of the 2010s Tournament has officially drawn to a close, with anti-vaxxing claiming the number one slot once and for all. To be honest, we're not totally surprised. Parents who choose not to vaccinate their kids are, after all, notorious for lifting rhetoric from the reproductive rights movement and pretty much completely responsible for the revival of once-dead diseases like measles. Wellness rocks!

Everyone Really Hates Anti-Vaxxers and Keto

The Crime of Gay Sex

Tags: Contagion, Diet, Disease, Gay, Hate, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, List, Men, Mental Health, Politics, Reckless, Safety, Sex, Treatment, Virus, Warning, World

Filed under: Health/Food

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16-Sep-2024

PETE DAVIDSON & MACHINE GUN KELLY TALK DICKS

“Always gotta fluff it up or get a sweet in-between-er, you can’t just go cold,” Pete responded. “I’m a grower for sure. I’m not really a grower or a shower. It’s actually the same small and hard. It’s actually a scientific wonder.”

DAVIDSON & MACHINE GUN KELLY TALK DICKS

Colin Jost gets brutally honest about Pete Davidson partnership

Tags: Anatomy, Bros, Celebrity, Interview, Men, NSFW, Sex, Warning, Weird

Filed under: Gay+

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13-Sep-2024

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