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George Michael’s ex caught smashing his way into the late star’s home
George Michael’s ex was busted for smashing his way into the late pop star’s London home — just days before the fourth anniversary of the singer’s Christmas Day death, according to reports.
Troubled hairstylist Fadi Fawaz, 47, was confronted Tuesday morning after breaking a window to get into the “Last Christmas” star’s empty $6.75 million home, the Sun said.
“This is my place. George wanted me to have it,” he allegedly yelled at officers who arrived at the house that Fawaz was kicked out of by Michael’s family last year, the UK paper said.
George Michael’s ex caught smashing his way into the late star’s home
“He would be mortified”
Who is Hugo D Almonte – Khalid’s ex who ‘outed’ him as gay?
The ‘A’ is not for ‘Ally’
As an asexual person, I can often feel excluded from the wider LGBTQ+ community. It can feel as if we are tolerated rather than welcomed, and sometimes even like we’re outright rejected. Having our validity disputed by LGBTQ+ peers is the most hurtful form of exclusion I have experienced.
The ‘A’ is not for ‘Ally’
Finding love as a gay man feels impossible
What little things make you lose interest in a guy?
It’s time to work toward a healthier relationship standard for queer men
'Trans-surgery ruined my life': Trans woman transitions back to man
On Tuesday's episode of Slightly Offens*ve, Elijah Schaffer, sat down with Abel Garcia, a transgender woman who regrets transitioning medically from a man to a woman at age 18.
After hormone and surgical procedures, Abel realized the lie he says was pushed on him as a young person -- too young, in fact, to even buy alcohol or cigarettes. But when he decided it was time to go back to being a man, he found out it's not as simple as it sounds.
Trans-surgery ruined my life
'Nobody told me how lonely being a man is'
Trans group bullies AMC into axing movie about detransitioners
Transgender detransition is on the rise
Kayla Lovdahl has already transitioned and detransitioned at 18
Trans poster-child regrets hormone jabs, hairy belly and 'dead ovary'
For Detransitioners, There’s No Going Back
'My daughter was murdered by a gender ideology'
I was a confused teenage boy
...patients were begging 'to have breasts put back on'
Mental Health issues as a Gay Male
Gay male culture is probably the biggest contributor to depression in my life. I relate to almost everything you've said! I've been called a "heteronormative prude" simply for stating that I like monogamy. Many gay men are very judgmental overall about penis size, muscles, looks, fitting into a "tribe" (bear, otter, jock, etc). As someone that desires a monogamous relationship and doesn't want to hookup anymore, it's VERY difficult to find others. It's the hardest thing in my life as a 36 year old gay man.
Mental Health issues as a Gay Male
I Hate Being Gay
The epidemic of gay loneliness
Sexual assault is endemic among gay men
'I thought rape isn't something that happens to men'
Pilot takes over plane’s PA system to complain to passengers about his sexuality
Gay man jailed during trip to Turkey and tortured by homophobic inmates
‘Monster’ Jonathan Van Ness caused ‘fear’ on ‘Queer Eye’ set
“He was an absolute nightmare to deal with”
Gay councilman resigns after drunken urination video & alleged assault
American men suffer 'friendship recession'
American men are experiencing a friendship recession, with nearly one in six not having one close friend, a new poll has found.
The proportion saying they have at least six close friends has plunged by half since 1990 from 55% to 27%, while the number without any at all is up five-fold from 3% to 15%, according to the American Perspectives Survey.
Singletons fare the worse, with one in five reporting not having any close friends. The lack of fellowship unsurprisingly has psychological impacts, with more than half of people with three or fewer close friends saying they felt lonely in the last week.
American men suffer 'friendship recession'
'Epidemic of loneliness' for under-35s: Young people's feeling of solitude was made worse by Covid pandemic, report shows
Why Do We Look Down On Lonely People?
Is Being an Older LGBTQ+ Person as Terrifying as It Sounds?
Someone asked me the other day what my favorite movie was, and I immediately said Arthur, like I always do. Then they said, “Never heard of it? When did it come out?” I didn’t answer 1981, nearly 40 years ago. At that moment I felt old, out of date, and superficially shallow.
Thus, I was not surprised by a new report from The Fenway Institute that found older LGBTQ+ adults in the state of Massachusetts have been diagnosed with depression at twice the rate of their straight, cisgender peers. It could be Massachusetts or any other state, or any other country because depression among older LGBTQ+ people is real, and no doubt much more widespread than we ever realize. I always tell people that if it could happen to me, the proverbial life of the party, it can happen to anyone. Having dealt with severe depression, and then having sought out many older LGBTQ+ people who also experienced similar circumstances, I found it remarkable that we all suffered from some sort of PTSD from our youths.
Again, not surprised that the report also found that LGBTQ+ individuals were twice as likely to fall and be injured in a fall over the past year, and I wouldn’t be shocked to hear if some of that was related to dangerous behavior about feeling alone and useless. Another woman, a lesbian, told me that she had a life-threatening operation, and has not been the same since and feels there’s nothing to live for, except her cat, who is 10. Otherwise, she is alone, without her partner who died, and without a family to take care of her. The family has made her feel shame for who she is, and she worries about being alone for the remainder of her life. Some days, she doesn’t feel like getting out of bed, and subsists on her Social Security checks, desperately afraid that she’ll end up in a nursing home left to die. We didn’t discuss it, but I’m sure she feels equal trepidation about not being able to pay the costs of round-the-clock care.
Is Being an Older LGBTQ+ Person as Terrifying as It Sounds?
Lenny Kravitz Says Luther Vandross Was Lonely and Tried to Hide His Sexual Orientation
Luther Vandross seemed to have it all, but according to Lenny Kravitz, the late singer struggled behind the scenes. Kravitz says Vandross was a lonely man and he tried to hide his sexual orientation from the public. The singer wanted nothing more than to live his life, but he held on to this secret until his death.
During an interview on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen, Patti LaBelle spoke about Vandross’ hesitance to come out. She says he told her he didn’t want to upset his mother. He also didn’t want to disappoint his female fans.
Lenny Kravitz Says Luther Vandross Was Lonely and Tried to Hide His Sexual Orientation
Why do so many gay men feel lonely? A life coach gives the unfiltered truth
The gay men I work with range from their 20s to 50s. The guys in their 20s are often more attuned to coaching. They’re proactive about their growth and preempt problems by making informed choices. They can be savvy about the need for personal investment.
For older guys, certain issues come up regularly. They include learning to thrive as a gay man as they get older, finding meaningful work and creating authentic connections.
Gay Star News
Lack of physical human contact is making us skin hungry and more lonely
Loneliness, the theme of this year’s Digital Pride, is a subject which at times seems intertwined with the LGBTI experience.
Ever since Radcliffe Hall wrote their seminal novel The Well Of Loneliness we have tried to find ways to express that sense of being apart, the isolation and the pain that realization often brings.
This sense of otherness can start in our early teens, as we recognize our difference. We believe that this divides us from our family, community and friends. This is one of the reasons so much work with LGBTI focuses on building links with others, opening up the possibility that they are not alone.
It is also why when we look at resilience as a sense of belonging, and being accepted are at the core of who thrives, and who does not. When we do not feel alone or isolated, we can grow and develop to our full potential.
For many of us, especially as we grow older, it can feel as if the isolation is ever present. This is not to dismiss the wonderful communities LGBTI people have built, the families we have fought to belong to, the place in the world which often, at great cost we have carved out for ourselves. However research tells us that many LGBTQI people still feel that deep sense of isolation.
Gay Star News