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You’re Just Not His Tribe: Rejection and the queer community 

 

Getting older and wiser doesn’t mean you’ll face less rejection. In fact I think most of us would agree that you’ll encounter it more.

Take dating, which is primarily a social dance of rejection and attraction amongst the billions of people who’ve inhabited our planet. Technology has had an immeasurable effect on meeting and courting and coupling. At no other time in history has mankind had the ability to browse an infinite pool of potential partners each day, filtered for you by location, hobbies, fetishes, degrees, etc. I could, potentially, use Grindr’s Explore feature to place myself in Tokyo, meet a guy on the app, and be sipping warm saki with him in a week’s time. Were you to tell someone about this ten years ago, they’d side-eye you before looking back at their Blackberry.

On the flip side, dating has never brought about the sheer volume of rejection we currently face. One hundred guys can reject you on Grindr in a day—more, if you’re tenacious. Mythology suggests that the Greek poet Sappho threw herself off of a cliff due to her unrequited love for a ferryman named Phaon. Imagine if she’d been rejected one hundred times in a day? There aren’t enough cliffs in the world.

You’re Just Not His Tribe: Rejection and the queer community

Tags: App, Dating, Environment, Exclusivity, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Rejection, Relationships, Sex, Tech, Treatment

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16-Oct-2020


Prosecutors warn Cardi B that plea deal over strip-club brawl may expire 

 

Queens prosecutors’ patience with Cardi B appears to be wearing thin, as they warned Wednesday that a plea offer over her alleged involvement in a strip-club brawl may not be on the table much longer.

Plea-deal talks with the Bronx-raised “WAP” rapper have been going on since early 2019 and remain open — despite Cardi’s legal team initially rejecting the offer over a year ago.

But Assistant District Attorney Ryan Nicolosi suggested Wednesday that the clock was ticking.

Prosecutors warn Cardi B that plea deal over strip-club brawl may expire

Tags: Celebration, Court, Neglect, Rejection

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01-Oct-2020


Pride Banners Incite Furor in Utah Town and Are Effectively Banned 

 

The City Council in Heber City, Utah, has approved limitations on what banners can be hung on city-owned light and street posts after receiving complaints about LGBTQ+ Pride flags.

People in and around the town of 16,000 have called the flags “odd,” “political,” and “disturbing,” The Salt Lake Tribune reports, and wondered if allowing Pride flags would mean the city would have to allow Nazi or Confederate flags — which no one has tried to display. The outcry led the council to consider the ordinance, which it adopted unanimously Tuesday.

City Council member Mike Johnston said he did not object to Pride flags but worried they would draw an “ugly response.” “That’s what really bothers me,” he said. “We don’t actually have a way to prevent the ugliness.”

Pride Banners Incite Furor in Utah Town and Are Effectively Banned

Tags: Backlash, Community, Complaint, Environmentalist, Flag, Gay, Leaders, LGBTQ, Politics, Rejection

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22-Aug-2020


Showtime fires Paulie Malignaggi over controversial remarks on racism, racial oppression 

 

Showtime Boxing returns tonight (August 1st) from Uncasville, CT with a vacant WBO bantamweight title between Tramaine Williams and Angelo Leo as the main event, but the broadcast will not feature Paulie Malignaggi’s analysis. In fact, Showtime has axed Malignaggi altogether.

Boxing Scene first reported that the retired former world champion was removed from Showtime Boxing broadcasts for comments he made back in April in an IFL TV interview that he apparently refused to apologize for. When the apology wasn’t issued, Showtime gave Malignaggi the boot. Abner Mares will take his place at least for tonight’s broadcast.

Now we get to Paulie. He directly addressed Haney’s comments by saying that through boxing history, the sport has been dominated by different racial/ethnic groups, and he claims that African-American fighters are no longer the dominant force in boxing like they were in the 30-50 years ago.

Showtime fires Paulie Malignaggi over controversial remarks on racism, racial oppression

Tags: Celebration, Employment, Entertainment, Journalism, Judgment, Opinion, Overreaction, Protest, Racial Tension, Rejection, Society, Sports, Termination

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01-Aug-2020


There’s a Divide in Even the Closest Interracial Friendships Including ours. 

 

It was one of those perfect California nights, not too cold or too hot. Ann’s backyard was strung with lights and punctuated with the cheerful buzz of conversation as people milled around with glasses of rosé in hand. She had offered up her patio as the venue for a friend’s birthday party. And—even better—Aminatou happened to be in town. She was in Los Angeles for a work trip and had been looking forward to attending the backyard soiree because she knew and liked the birthday girl and many of the other guests.

When she showed up, the party was already in full swing. Aminatou found that the snacks were delicious and the mood lovely. But what should have been a fun night celebrating and catching up with friends turned sour when Aminatou noticed that she was the only Black person milling around Ann’s back patio.

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15-Jul-2020


Two Texas police officers fatally shot while responding to a domestic disturbance 

 

Two police officers in McAllen, Texas, were killed while answering a domestic disturbance call Saturday afternoon, according to the police chief.

The officers were shot by a suspect as they approached the door of a home, McAllen Police Chief Victor Rodriguez said during a press conference Saturday evening.

"The officers never had a chance to suspect a deadly assault on them, much less death, at that moment in time," a very emotional Rodriguez told reporters.

Two Texas police officers fatally shot while responding to a domestic disturbance

NYPD cop placed in headlock while trying to break up Bronx crowd, video shows

City Hall ‘walks’ back Mayor’s plan for community leaders to ‘walk with police officers’

Tags: All Rights, Attack, Community, Crime, Demands, Leaders, Murder, Police, Policy, Protest, Rejection, Video, Violence

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12-Jul-2020


HGTV’s Erin Napier Is ‘Turning Off’ Instagram Comments Until 2021 After Calling Out Trolls 

 

Erin Napier knows social media can be a dark place — and now she’s taking matters into her own hands and changing the way people can interact with her posts.

The Home Town star, 34, previously opened up about Instagram bullies having taken an emotional toll on her, and on Thursday morning she announced on that platform that she’s taking significant steps towards taming those trolls by turning off comments on her posts until 2021.

“Turning off comments till 2021 feels like a good move,” she captioned a photo of her and her husband (and HGTV co-star), Ben, 37. “It’s getting harder to shoulder every opinion from every direction at all times about everything when everyone is freaking out constantly. There’s too much noise.”

She used an analogy to explain how social media can be deceiving, and explained that commenters often react without seeing the full picture.

People

Sam Neill on sharing firm views on Twitter: “We really don’t need someone else shouting”

Paramore Stops Selling ‘Say Their Names’ Poster After Receiving Backlash

Tags: Art, Celebrity, Criticism, Entertainment, Environment, Film, Film Trivia, Hollywood, Hostility, Music, Rejection, Representation, Social Media, Sweet, Termination

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11-Jul-2020


Keke Palmer Responds to August Alsina: 'I Feel Attacked, But It's Not About Me' (UPDATE) 

 

Keke Palmer appears to have responded to August Alsina's scathing tweets via Instagram, writing "I want to post screenshots, but I won’t."

Seems like Keke's taking the high road on this one, adding that she'd spare the singer by recognizing that he's probably going through it right now given this whole Red Table Talk situation.

"Yes girl. August was never my man lol," she wrote. "That’s why you’re still reaching to this day to figure out nothing."

"U absolutely right.I was NEVER ur man," he responded. "You could possibly never shortie. It seems u mad u got curved,

Complex

Jada Pinkett Smith admits she DID have an affair with singer August Alsina while her marriage to Will Smith was on the rocks as couple sit down for bombshell tell-all

Tags: Celebrity, Denial, Feud, LGBTQ, Men In Charge, Privacy, Rejection, Relationships, Sex, Truth, Video

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10-Jul-2020


260,000 sign petition to block film starring Paris Jackson as Jesus 

 

A forthcoming film starring Paris Jackson as Jesus has been denounced as “Christianophobic garbage” in an online petition to prevent its release, which has attracted more than 260,000 signatures.

The casting of Jackson, a model and actor who is the daughter of the late pop star Michael Jackson, opposite Bella Thorne and musician Gavin Rossdale in the film Habit was announced in April. The plot synopsis suggests that Thorne plays a “street smart party girl with a Jesus fetish [who] gets mixed up in a violent drug deal and finds a possible way out by masquerading as a nun”. Jackson’s “gender-bending take on the religious figure” was reported to include “a nose ring, tousled waves and a traditional robe”.

The petition, which names Warner Bros and Lionsgate as its targets, claims that Jackson will play Jesus as a “lesbian”, though there is no mention of this in any publicly available reports of the film. The petition also claims the film is “blasphemous” and that it is “Christianophobic garbage that is spread nowadays, but is somehow accepted and praised by society”.

260,000 sign petition to block film starring Paris Jackson as Jesus

Tags: Art, Backlash, Celebrity, Entertainment, Fantasy, Film, LGBTQ, Petition, Reaction, Rejection, Unemployment

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01-Jul-2020


Restaurant Group Apologizes and Changes Policy After Black Woman and Her Son Were Denied Service 

 

Atlas Restaurant Group has issued an apology after one of their Baltimore restaurants denied service to a Black woman and her 9-year-old son because of how he was dressed.

On Monday, a video posted on social media showed the woman, Marcia Grant, being turned away at Ouzo Bay in Baltimore’s Harbor East after an unidentified manager tells Grant that her son’s outfit violates the restaurant’s dress code, despite a white boy at the restaurant wearing a similar outfit to her son.

People

Tags: Business, Children, Classless, Employment, Etiquette, Exclusivity, Insensitivity, Parental Burden, Racial Tension, Racism, Rejection, Respect, Restaurant

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23-Jun-2020


Nonreligious LGBTQ People Face Discrimination, Stigma 

 

A new report from American Atheists titled Reality Check: Being Nonreligious in America reveals high levels of discrimination and stigma for nonreligious people in general and notes that those who are LGBTQ have a disproportionate lack of family support.

“LGBTQ young people face significant family rejection that results in a greater rate of negative psychological outcomes,” states the report, released Monday and based on the U.S. Secular Survey. “Similarly, nonreligious LGBTQ survey participants were more likely to have unsupportive parents. Among families that are aware of the participant’s nonreligious identity, LGBTQ participants were significantly more likely to have had 'very' or 'somewhat' unsupportive parents (43.0%) compared to non-LGBTQ participants (34.9%).”

These numbers are cause for concern, the report notes, because “participants with unsupportive parents had a 71.2% higher rate of likely depression than those with very supportive parents.”

It doesn’t get any better for nonreligious LGBTQ people outside the home, either, with 22 percent of those surveyed reporting negative experiences at work.

Advocate

Tags: Environment, Etiquette, Exclusivity, Family, Harassment, Hate, Hostility, Interference, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Nobody's Business, Parental Crime, Parental Responsibility, Politics, Privilege, Punishment, Rejection, Religion, Resisting, Safety, Society, Stereotype, Supremacy, Threat, Treatment

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06-May-2020


Poland may start sending teachers to jail for turning kids gay 

 

Poland is considering a bill that would throw teachers in jail for teaching sex education. The bill links pedophilia and homosexuality.

The Parliament of Poland is set to vote on the “Stop Pedophilia bill” today. It does not address sex with minors, but instead focuses on sex education in schools.

Poland doesn’t currently have a required sex education curriculum for public schools, but the current law would go much further than simply not having a curriculum and impose a penalty of up to three years in prison for teachers who provide sex education to children.

The bill’s explanation of why sex education is bad brings up homosexuality multiple times, including a statement that says sex ed teachers “groom and familiarize children with homosexuality.”

Poland may start sending teachers to jail for turning kids gay

Masterpiece Cakeshop Back in Court for Refusing Service to Trans Woman

Thom Carr Is the 3rd COVID-19 Death of a Winter Party Attendee

People are criticizing disgraced politician Aaron Schock and a group of influencers for going to a resort in Mexico to quarantine together

Coronavirus closed down colleges – now some LGBTQ students fear an abusive

Poland votes against killing abhorrent law that jails sex ed teachers and compares homosexuality with paedophilia

Tags: Activism, Business, Children, Coronavirus, Court, Death, Education, Exclusivity, Hate, Homeless, Laws, Leaders, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Parental Burden, Parties, Politics, Preference, Punishment, Rejection, Safety, Self Interest, Sex, World, Youth

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17-Apr-2020


Charity compares homosexuality to drug addiction to justify rejecting LGBTQ coronavirus volunteers 

 

An organization has been refusing to allow LGBTQ people – including medical professionals – to volunteer at its New York City tent hospital set up to help people afflicted with coronavirus.

The group’s president is defending the policy by comparing homosexuality to alcoholism, drug addiction, and people who volunteer just “to pick up girls.”

“God instituted monogamous marriage between male and female as the foundation of the family and the basic structure of human society,” the statement says. “For this reason, we believe that marriage is exclusively the union of one genetic male and one genetic female.”

At least one person who tried to volunteer without signing the Statement of Faith was turned away, with a staffer at the organization saying it “is a Christian organization.”

LGBTQ Nation

Homophobic tensions halt plans for a second Franklin Graham coronavirus hospital in a cathedral

Church members get $500 tickets for sitting in their vehicles with windows closed during radio service in church parking lot

UK cop tells man he can't sit in his own front garden due to COVID-19 lockdown: 'I'm asking you to go indoors; are you refusing to go indoors?'

Tags: $, All Rights, Backlash, Coronavirus, Covidiot, Discrimination, Employment, Environment, Exclusivity, Fine, Hate, Health, Homophobia, Insensitivity, LGBTQ, Medical, Oops, Overreaction, Police, Punishment, Rejection, Religion, Selfish, Social Distancing, Supremacy, Termination, Threat, Thug, Treatment

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10-Apr-2020


Gay Guys With Small Penises Share Their Hookup Horror Stories 

 

“Are you hung/XL”?

If you’re a queer guy, chances are that question has shaped a good chunk of your Grindr experience. Sure, it’s a casually posed enquiry. But the question reinforces the stigma surrounding penis size – particularly in male-male hook-up culture – that drives many men to feel ashamed, embarrassed or undesirable.

When it comes to penis size in male-male hook up culture, individuals can end up afraid of dating, put off sexual activity and in some cases abstain from sex altogether to remove themselves from the risk of being shamed, or feeling shamed. Yet, penis size-shaming continues to be broadly presented as a joke in popular culture, as this recent Guardian article surmised so well.

So in the interest of smashing the stigma and humanising the situation, here are four men with smaller penises who have told VICE the reality of their experience, and how it feels to be discriminated against.

“I asked if everything was OK, and my hookup said: ‘Only men with big cocks can fuck me’”

Vice

Tags: Anatomy, App, Celibacy, Dating, Discrimination, Environment, Exclusivity, Gay, Hate, Hostility, Insensitivity, LGBTQ, Men Not In Charge, Mental Health, Rejection, Relationships, Sex, Size, World

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06-Mar-2020


Disgraced ex-Rep. Aaron Schock comes out as gay 

 

Scandal-scarred former Rep. Aaron Schock has come out as gay — admitting it has left him disowned by his deeply religious family who wants him to go through conversion therapy.

“I am gay,” wrote the 38-year-old ex-pol who resigned from Congress five years ago amid claims he misused government and campaign funds, with federal charges only dropped last year.

“For those who know me and for many who only know of me, this will come as no surprise,” admitted Schock, who noted there was plenty of “speculation” while he was in office.

“In many ways I regret the time wasted in not having done so sooner,” he said. “Life is better with nothing to fear or hide.”

NY Post

Tags: $, Choices, Coming Out, Employment, Gay, Leaders, LGBTQ, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Politics, Rejection, Religion

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05-Mar-2020




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